为了防止两个极端，我们有一个似乎自相矛盾的意见，这可用我听到的罗斯金先生的一句话来表示，“让自己尽最大可能地适应社会，然后—绝不能进去。”
To guard against both extremes we have the paradoxical advice I have heard attributed to Mr. Ruskin, "Fit yourself for the best society, and then--never enter it."
如果你要原谅一个人，罗斯金说，你必须先确定你对这种情况究竟是什么感觉，到底是什么让你心烦意乱。
To forgive, Luskin says, you first have to pinpoint exactly how you feel and what upsets you about the situation.
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