好让你的痛苦消失。

So you'd be spared your pain.

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并且确保在你到达后以及其后的时间都要与他们保持经常的联系。 与他人分享你的经验会让你的痛苦减半，使你的快乐倍增。

Sharing the experience always halves any burdens and doubles the excitement of any achievements.

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对过去的一切看得太清晰，会让你很难忘记痛苦和遗憾。

Viewing the past in high definition can make it very difficult to get over pain and regret.

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And the Freudian response is, "Your rejection of my ideas shows that they are distressing to you.

精神分析的支持者们会回答，“你对我观点的反对,说明这些观点让你感到痛苦。

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