改变人们想法的方法是和他们成为朋友，让他们融入你的部落，把他们带入你的圈子。
The way to change people's minds is to become friends with them, to integrate them into your tribe, to bring them into your circle.
在你被她愿意用一生来使你变得更完美的想法使自己变得飘飘然之前，你需要搞清楚让自己改变是不是她的一厢情愿。
Before you get flattered by the idea that she wants to devote her entire future to making you a better person, you need to determine if changing yourself is a mutual decision.
你所要做的就是让你的观念和你的想法稍做一点改变。
All it takes is a simple change in your mind and in your attitude.
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