现代心理学家们都醉心于“一赢再赢”的解决办法,而在婚姻里头,成功往往在于采取“一输再输”的策略。
Modern psychologists are taken with the "win-win" solution. But in marriage, success resides more in "lose-lose" solutions.
现代心理学家们都醉心于“一赢再赢”的解决办法,而在婚姻里头,成功往往在于采取“一输再输”的策略。
Modern psychologists are taken with the 'win-win' solution. But in marriage, success resides more in 'lose-lose' solutions. Out of these, both parties can win.
而在包办婚姻中(当然这才是我的初衷),我们可以发现两情相悦的初期爱情成分其实并不多。
And in the arranged marriages—and this is true in my work, too—we see the love starting out relatively low.
The only marriage that actually appears there is a marriage between two rivers.
而真正出现在那儿的,是两条河流之间的婚姻。
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