我们为了不“冒犯”而压抑自己的真实个性，这样在女人面前是展现不出自身价值的。

By suppressing our real personality in an attempt to avoid 'offending' women, we fail to offer them any VALUE.

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相反，心理素质的确非常重要，我们也应该倡导大家在平时的生活，学习和工作中不断地锻炼自己沉稳，不焦不躁的心理素质，唯有这样才可以历炼艰难困苦而不倒，实现自己的人生价值。

Conversely, psychological condition is really critical and we should try our best to cultivate a strong will with great composure in our life, study and work.

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我们都笑了，她则清了清嗓子开始说：“我们并不因为自己老了而不娱乐；我们因为停止了娱乐而变老。”

As we laughed she cleared her throat and began: "we do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing."

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And if we're stressed out all the time and working in counseling, never doing what we love, we're always complaining.

假如我们自己总是惶惶不可终日,却还做着顾问的工作，而不做自己喜爱的工作，就像我们总抱怨的。

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