我为从这位如此粗鲁的男士身上看到如此优雅的姿态而倍感惊奇。

I was surprised at such a delicate gesture from such an apparently rough man.

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让他人决定我们就举止粗鲁或优雅、心情高兴或沮丧，就是放弃对自己个性的主宰，而这种主宰从根本上说乃是我们唯一握在手中的东西。

To let another determine whether we should be rude or gracious, elated or depressed, is to relinquish control over our own personalities, which is ultimately all we possess.

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