我们应该常常看到别人的优点和长处，而不应该只盯着别人的缺点和短处。
We should often see the advantages and strengths of others, rather than just staring at other people's shortcomings and weaknesses.
透过与自己最亲密的伴侣，在冲突中了解到自己的短处与缺点，对人格的成长有正面积极的助益。
Understand one's own shortcomings and flaws through the conflict with one's most intimate life partner can contribute positively to the development of one's characters.
别人的缺点和短处，不要故意去揭穿它。别人的私事和秘密，不要去说给别人听。
If a person has a shortcoming, I will not expose it. If a person has a secret, I will not tell others.
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