我相信他们的回答，但是我明白如果我要求同样的男男女女描述一下他们的母亲，发现他们理想中的伴侣与他们的母亲有许多相似之处。

I believe what they say. But I also know that if I were to ask those same men and women to describe their mothers, there would be many similarities between their ideal mates and their moms.

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如果你出门并且参加一些社交活动，你会很享受和大家的相处，并会和一位理想中的伴侣建立联系。

You can enjoy the company of others and come in contact with an ideal mate, if you get out and mingle.

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定义和明确你在一段理想关系和完美伴侣中的想要的要现实，问自己需要什么而不是想要什么？

Define and get clear about what you want in your ideal relationship and partner. Be realistic, and ask what your needs are rather than your wants.

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