总的来说是积极的经验还是消极的经验？

Is it on balance a positive or negative experience?

youdao

对我来说，女性的身体是美丽的，我积极地利用它而不是消极对待。

For me, the female body is beautiful and I use it for something positive, not negative.

youdao

我所理解的消极思想可能对其他人来说是自然的。

What I perceive as a negative thought may be something natural for somebody else.

youdao

Given that we're going to die, this fact seeps back in and poisons the nature of life or perhaps poisons the nature of the whole, life followed by death, so that on balance the whole thing's negative.

已知我们会死，这个事实渗透到并使毒害生命的本质,或者也许毒害所有事的本质，生后即是死，所以总的来说，所有的事都是消极的。

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