至于人伦至上时“根本就没爱的存在”这个指控，那是完全错误的，以上所说的已经充分证明了这点。

As for the charge that "there is no love to begin with" when the relationship-defined obligations are supreme, that's absolutely false. The above paragraphs fully demonstrate this point.

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女孩们总是为这种行为开脱，她们没意识到这根本不是爱，而只是想要把你像私有财产一样掌控着。

Girls make excuses for it and don't realize it's not about love, but it's about controlling you as a possession.

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不，我不是埃德加•爱伦•坡小说里神出鬼没的幽灵；我也不是你们在好莱坞电影里见到的鬼影。

No, I am not a spook like those who haunted Edgar Allan Poe; nor am I one of your Hollywood-movie ectoplasms.

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There's a country song that Ricky Skaggs sings that has the phrase in it " "Nothing can hurt you like the person you love."

瑞基·斯卡格斯，唱过一首乡村歌曲,其中有句歌词,“没人能像你爱的人那样伤害你“

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I have lived with other roommates where they were not so clean.

我也和其他室友住过，他们可没那么爱干净。

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