“为了克服厌倦，”欧布斯说，“双方都应该把精力放在为关系增添情趣上，可以是简单的一家新餐馆或一个度假胜地。”

"To overcome ennui," Orbuch said, "both parties should focus on adding spice to the relationship, which can be as simple as a new restaurant or vacation spot."

youdao

那是中年离婚的一个普遍原因，欧布斯说。

That's a common reason for midlife divorces, Orbuch said.

youdao

欧布斯说，“事情从小做起，看起来似乎无关紧要。”他们积聚了一段时间会发生什么呢，他们变得越来越大了。

"Things can start out small and seemingly insignificant," Orbuch said. "What happens is they accumulate over time and they become bigger and bigger."

youdao