你可以通过开办你自己的派对，组织一个活动，成为一个团队的教练，成为一个社会组织的核心成员之一等等方式来获得这个。

You can achieve this by throwing your own party, organizing an event, being the coach of a team, being one of the dominant members of a social group, and so on.

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詹妮弗：是啊。这个周六晚上，我要办一个派对。就算是庆祝乔迁之喜吧，我想邀请你来。你忙吗？ ？

Jennifer: : Yeah. I'm having a party this Saturday night. A sort of housewarming, and I want to invite you. Are you busy?

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我和汤姆准备在这个礼拜六下午举行一个派对庆祝，你来吗？

Tom and I are going to throw a party to celebrate on Saturday afternoon. Will you come?

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