压力通常源于无法控制局面，或者感觉局面在控制你。

Stress is generally driven by the feeling of being out of control of a situation, and the feeling of a situation controlling you.

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然后他会告诉你特蕾莎修女是如何控制局面、让他冷静下来的，如何给每个人分配任务、让他们行动起来的。

Then he tells you how Teresa took charge, calmed him down, assigned tasks for each person and got them on their way.

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我当时觉得自己能完全控制局面。

I thought I could maintain total control.

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But a mountain of those who think that they are in power, who think that they are in control, who think that there's no need that they have it, they can't satisfy by spending money.

但实际上，这座山暗指那些自恃有权之人，那些自恃能够控制局面的人,认为金钱，可以买到一切。

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He has a clear purpose and he retains control throughout the story.

在整个故事中，上帝一直有很明确的目的，能控制局面。

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