最后一件事：当人们对自己被接纳感到高兴（且看上去对把别人排除在外感到很愉悦）的时候，他们所感受到的好处会被局外人的不满和失望矮化。
One last thing: while people are delighted to be included (and seemto enjoy excluding others), the benefits they feel are dwarfed by theanger and disappointment of those excluded.
再过几天，我们可能会打听到一些有关他们的消息。 等我们把事情弄明白了；要是他们真的没有结婚，而且不打算结婚，那时候才谈得上失望。
In a few days more, we may gain some news of them, and till we know that they are not married, and have no design of marrying, do not let us give the matter over as lost.
铃木对于和100多人住在体育馆里感到很失望，他把他能找到的纸箱都拆开，在他们的毛毯周围围起来，这样能够创造了些私人空间。
Frustrated with living in a gymnasium with more than 100 people, Suzuki broke down as many cardboard boxes as he could find and built walls around their blankets, creating some privacy.
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