十秒钟的时间让你清醒过来。“嗯，他和我家人待在一起的时候很不舒服，”或“嗯，他在工作上不得不努力，已经够辛苦的了，他需要做一些事他能说得算的。”

Ten seconds gives you time to flash on, "Oh, he's very uncomfortable with my family," or "Hmmm, he's been whipped at work and needs to be in control of something (pathetic as his choice may be.)"

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