我那么努力，想让你们对我另眼相看。

I tried so hard to impress you.

youdao

我应该努力无为，因为正面的行为不是真的那么必要，它只不过是硬币的一面而已。

I should be striving for nothing, because positivity isn't necessarily real, it's just one side of the same coin.

youdao

我并没有很努力去寻找可以结婚的人，但它就那么自然而然发生了。

I was very much not looking for someone to marry, but that's what happened anyway.

youdao

And just try to, I try to not be the downer in a situation.

然后就是想办法，我努力让自己不要那么沮丧。

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