我害怕命运，直到我意识到，我有能力改变自己的生活。

Until I realized that I had the power to change my life.

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因为我和丈夫过着简单的生活，我们有掌控自己命运的自由。

Because my husband and I live a simple lifestyle, we have the freedom to control our destiny.

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我有个信心十足的想法，在我们的影响范围之内，我们能够控制我们的命运——这意味着对我们自己的承诺不应该有借口。

I am confident enough in the thought that given the control over our sphere of influence, we can control our destinies - implying there shouldn't be excuses to commitments we make to ourselves.

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