在中国，未婚生子会让家庭感到羞耻，所以她很可能对我的存在保密了。

Having a baby in her unmarried state would have brought shame on the family in China, so she probably kept my existence a secret.

youdao

我在选什么专业上和我的父母存在分歧。

I'm in conflict with my parents on which major to choose.

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这并不意味着我的待办事项清单已经不存在了，但我越来越意识到慢下来的重要性，并确保我在进行每天的活动时，能享受这一过程。

It doesn't mean that my to-do lists no longer exist, but I've become more aware of the importance of slowing down and making sure that I enjoy the daily activities as I carry them out.

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and that's spreading. This prosperity preaching is going on in Africa. And my question is, where does that leave suffering?

这种劲头越来越大，这种追求繁荣的论调,甚至在非洲都出现了，我想问的是，在这样的大背景下，受苦还能存在么？

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So, where is Nabokov in here? I think that's one of the places where Nabokov is. It's Nabokov meditating on this problem.

那么，在这一段中纳博科夫在哪里呢？我，认为这是他所,存在的一个地方，纳博科夫正在沉思这个问题。

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So although of course it's true, when I imagine these various possibilities without me, I'm thinking about them. I'm observing them.

所以即便真的，当我想象这些没有我存在的可能的时候，我同时也在观察着这些可能。

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