但最终在一次电话交谈中，他的愤怒、指责、漫骂是如此的失去理智，我也明白了问题的源头在他而不是我。

Finally, though, during one telephone conversation, his anger, accusations, and name-calling became so clearly irrational that I knew our dispute had its origins with him and not with me.

youdao

保持你的理智完整，亲爱的，至少保持到在我失去我的之后。

Keep your marbles intact, love, at least until I lose mine.

youdao