但是，现在人们用这个成语暗示，是敌人产生戒备的不成熟行为。

But people now use the idiom to indicate that premature actions which put the enemy on guard.

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你不会缺乏灵感，但是你会有时间保持头脑的冷静，尤其是会有计划地与人交往，经过深思熟虑之后的成熟行为会让你实现自己的目标。

Your inspiration will not be lacking, but you will have to keep the cool head and especially to associate that with plans; actions maturely considered to arrive at the realization of your objectives.

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如果你的父母不愿意重新协商，你可以通过让你的行为证明你有与成熟度相匹配的责任感来加快这个过程。

If your parents are reluctant to renegotiate, you can speed the process along by letting your behavior show that you have the responsibility that goes with maturity.

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