一般人是感到绝望，沮丧和痛苦。

One could sense despair, frustration, and pain.

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过度的绝望和沮丧使得他们过分把注意力放在自己不寻常的需要上，从而感到受伤，忽视同伴的感受。

Feeling overwhelmed and frustrated makes them overly focus on their own violated needs and sense of hurt and ignore their partners'.

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这甚至令法兰克福学派也感到沮丧和绝望，把一个故事讲出来而它的结论是你不可能改变任何东西、你早已经失败了，这有什么意义呢？

It even drove the Frankfurt School into depression and despair. What's the point of telling a story the conclusion of which is you can't change anything, you've already lost?

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