孩子就是…啥意思？就是想报复你。

Uncle Zhao Eh… I guess she jus' wants to revenge you…

youdao

当你想报复一个女人的时候，你不用杀她——胡说！

When you want to get revenge on a woman you don't kill her--bosh!

youdao

如果你想报复某人，只会继续受到此人对你的伤害。

That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.

youdao

So, in fact, you might want to marry John because he reminds you of your father or because you want to get back at somebody for betraying you.

所以，事实上你想与约翰结婚,可能是因为他让你想起了你的父亲,或是因为你想要报复曾经背叛了你的人。

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