我为自己对她如此笨拙和冷漠而感到羞耻和震惊。

I was ashamed and appalled at my clumsiness and insensitivity toward her.

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但是如果自残者容许伤害自己同时也有心理后果，包括对自己行为感到羞耻以及害怕被社会拒绝。

But there are psychological consequences as well, including feeling shame about the behavior and fearing social rejection if the self-injurers do admit to hurting themselves.

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你应该对自己的不礼貌感到羞耻。

You should be ashamed of your bad manners.

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