与非暴力相结合的话，首先我们必须对对方予以爱和尊重。
To connect nonviolently, first we have to value love and respect for others.
我们长时间地交谈，沉默，但是都不承认爱着对方，而是胆怯猜疑地隐藏起对对方的爱。
We talked a long time, and were silent, yet we did not confess our love to each other, but timidly and jealously concealed it.
距离会加强爱的联系，会有助于我们重现认识自己，使我们可以以新的方式面对对方。
Distance and can intensify a loving bond, and it can help us rediscover ourselves, so that we are able to meet each other in a new way.
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