然后，你每次把她拉回来，张力就松弛下来。

And each time you pull her in, it releases that tension.

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每次把她推出去就是为把她拉回来在情感上创造了空间。

Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull.

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推挽式是一种情感上的方法，先让她远离你，然后在再把她拉回来。

Push-Pull is emotionally Pushing a woman away from you and then emotionally Pulling her back in.

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