社会的外在奖励不能衡量真正的成功。
弄清楚内心深处的自己是谁——不要出于压力把自己变成一个得到外在的奖励而内心感到陌生和不真实的“自己”。
And, knowing who you are inside — independent of the pressures to adapt to a "self" that may bring external reward but also feels alien and inauthentic.
另一方面当我们为了得到奖励而去做某事的时候，比如证书或者金钱，就是外在的动机。
On the other hand when we do something because we receive some reward, like a certificate or money, this is extrinsic motivation.
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