然而，说出“分手”二字谈何容易。 也许，“让命运决定”是更好的表达方式。

She says she' on the brink of giving up this relationship, but is reluctant to say the word break-up, perhaps "just let fate does its job," is the better way to express it.

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当更重要的问题，尤其是孩子们的命运被决定时，离婚就会获得批准。

The divorce would be granted when more important problems, notably the fate of the children, had been decided.

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接下来发生的事可能会决定他们的命运。

What happens next could decide their destiny.

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Perhaps because they have become wise in that they have learned they have moral choice. They have free will, they can defy God and God's plans for them in a way that animals and natural phenomena cannot.

也许是因为，他们在拥有智慧以后,明白他们有道德选择，他们有自由的意愿,可以反抗上帝为他们决定的命运,而这些事动物和自然无法做到的。

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That would be tantamount to creating divine enemies, immortal enemies So God must maintain the upper hand in his struggle with these humans who have learned to defy him. And he maintains the upper hand in this, the fact that they eventually must die.

因为，这相当于创造了一个，旗鼓相当，永生的敌人,所以，上帝在与，这些学会反抗他的人类争斗时,占了上峰，利用他的优势,决定了人类必将死亡的命运。

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To what extent is your fate sealed?

你的人生又有多少是由命运决定的呢

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