你曾经经历过因为某事而生气，然后有人告诉你要放松这样的事吗？

Have you ever been annoyed by something before, then have someone tell you to "relax"? How did you feel?

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它们多半会告诉你，要“放松”，“做你自己”——这是完全不负责任的说法。

Mostly they tell you to "relax" and to "be yourself" - which is downright irresponsible.

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