不管是你对别人造成伤害还是你对别人造成伤害,你都要试着去弄清楚为什么会造成伤害。
No matter if you caused the hurt or if another person caused the hurt, try to understand why it occurred.
只有你自己才清楚你的私生活和工作环境,所以你在横向变更或是其他变更之前都要仔细评估。
Only you know your personal and professional circumstances, so evaluate them carefully before you make any move -- lateral or otherwise.
这个部分的要点在于你很清楚你看世界的方式,而且你和我都要认可你的假设。
The point of this section is to be sure that you're clear about the way you see the world, and that you and I agree on your assumptions.
You kind of have to work those things out, like establish what you are beforehand like,
你需要把事情谈清楚,比如什么事都要提前说好,
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