或许你觉得别人才是问题：如果他们可以改变……然而你无法改变别人，别人只能为他们的行为负责，无需为你的愤怒负责。

It may seem as if other are the problem: if only they would change... But you can't change others. People are not responsible for your anger, only for their actions.

youdao

一旦你接受了你无法改变别人，你一旦接受了他们能改变你的唯一方式是如果你允许他们的话这个事实，你会突然发现自己获得了力量。

Once you have accepted the reality that you cannot change others and that the only way they can change you is if you let them, then you suddenly find yourself empowered.

youdao

你无法让世界为你改变，也无法让别人为你改变，唯一能改变的只有自己。

You can't make the world change for you, you can't let other people change for you, only you can change.

youdao