我不是说这个来打击你，只是为了让你摆脱失败的恐惧……因为你已经知道它可能发生，所以也就没有压力要去避开它。

I don't say that to discourage you, but to release you from the fear of failure... because if you already know it will happen, then there's no pressure to avoid it.

youdao

不要再打击我不要让你的心声打击你的精神。

Stop beating me up. Don't let your inner voice pummel your spirit.

youdao

我希望当你看到一个传授自我提升类知识的网站说出这样丧气的话不会对你造成太大的打击。

I hope it doesn’t shock you to see a personal development web site use the dreaded C-word.

youdao

How different?" Just so you understand, by this time, my self-esteem is short.

有何不同“，你要知道，那时候，我已经完全被打击了。

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