正是通过你所不是的你才能定义你自己。

Itis by that which you are not that you yourself are defined.

youdao

“你所不是的那个。”我答道。那小灵魂了解了。

"That which you are not," I replied, and the soul understood.

youdao

你不可能强迫其他人去成为自己所不是的。

You cannot force another human being to be what he is not.

youdao

Maybe everything you're now experiencing is not real, but rather is the product of some other, perhaps malevolent, creature.

或许你现在所经历的一切都不是真实的,而是某种邪恶生物制造出的幻觉

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and not for the culture they have been brought into, which you might like or not.

而不是他们所融入的文化，这文化你也许喜欢也许不喜欢。

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Did you... I mean, cause I could predict both of where you are, you are in the west bank, you are in Israel, and not really seeing a way. You know what I mean. And so what did you resolve?

那你们，我的意思是，我能够预计,你们两个所处的情形，你在西岸，你在以色列，却不是很容易找到一个方式，你们懂我的意思吗？,你们如何解决的？

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