例如，设想你害怕邀清以为同事去吃午餐，但你害怕你会没有什么东西谈，且她不喜欢你。

For instance, suppose you are afraid to invite a new colleague to lunch because you're afraid you won't have anything to talk about and she won't like me.

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你总是那么安静。我以为你什么都害怕，但你很勇敢。

You're always so quiet. I thought you were afraid of everything, but you were brave.

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比如，如果有人欺负你，你也许会觉得害怕，但如果你看到同学受欺负并且感到害怕，你可能会帮他说话或挺身而出。

For example, you might feel afraid if someone bullied you, and when you think a classmate feels afraid, you may say something (a kind word) or come to her defense.

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Because,indeed,they don't exist They're merely possible And we might say,you've got to exist in order for something to be bad for you But once we say that it seems we're running towards the position that in that case,death can't be bad for me because of course,when I'm dead,I don't exist ? So how can anything be bad for me?

因为他们其实并不存在,他们只是一种可能,我们由此认为你必须首先存在,某事才会让你害怕,但我们一旦这么说,我们似乎会得出这个结论,这种情况下死亡不可能让我害怕,因为我死了就不存在了,所以我怎么会害怕？

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