我失望是因为我想知道我们做为一种文化，为什么要等这个人去世之后才告诉他我们有多么爱他们？

I was discouraged because I wanted to know why we as a culture, wait until somebody has passed away before we tell them how much we love them?

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当然，他们不知道的是我从没停止过爱他。

Of course, what they don't get is, unlike him, I never fell out of love.

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