这就是为什么你应该开始走出第一步，与“上层朋友”建立关系，让他们被你的人格魅力和办事能力所说服，牢牢地围在你身边。

That's why you need to start any leadership initiative with your "high-level friends" firmly by your side, convinced of the merits of your character and policies. But that's not enough.

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边缘型人格障碍的症状包括对自己与他人关系的严重不安全感、对遭受抛弃背叛的持续恐惧以及对寻求伴侣反复保证的需求。

Symptoms of borderline personality disorder include severe insecurity about relationships, fears of abandonment and constant, needy reassurance-seeking from partners.

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当然IQ和人格测试可能跟Fechner的思想没有直接的关系，但他们的信念是一样的：去测量、去认证、去了解不同之处。

While IQ and personality test may not bear much direct relation to Fechner's ideas, their spirit is the same: to measure, to quantify, to know the difference between.

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How do we get people to flourish,intellectually,emotionally, ? psychologically,interpersonally,intra-personally?

我们如何让人们从智力上，情感上，心理上，人际关系上，人格上全面发展？

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So, for instance, there's no evidence that oral and anal characteristics, the personality characteristics I talked about about being needy versus being stingy relate in any interesting way to weaning or toilet training.

比如，并没有证据表明,我们之前所讲到的，粘人的口腔期人格特征,和吝啬的肛门期人格特征,与断奶或是如厕训练之间,存在任何关系。

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