对于人生中看似无法控制的难题，当你能够控制自己的应对，那么你就事实上控制了事实对你的影响。

When you control your reaction to the seemingly uncontrollable problem life, then in fact you do control problem's effect on you.

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The Elder Brother is issuing this theory without any consideration, - obviously, whatsoever of earthly reality and we're shocked by -- I don't know how else to put it.

大哥没有经过任何思考就提出了这个理论，显然，尘世间的任何事实都让我们震惊了-,我不知道怎么去说。

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It's not as though if you kill yourself you somehow bring it about that you've never been born at all.

不是说如果你自杀了就能够扭转,你出生了这个事实。

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We laugh when there is incongruity between what we expect and what we actually--what actually happens unless the outcome is frightening."

当我们的期望和现实发生的事实,之间出现不一致时，我们就会笑,除非这种不一致引起恐惧”

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