In order to become the "ideal" you may have to get a job, pick-up behind yourself, learn to cook, wear make-up, be nicer, change your diet, etc.

为了成为那个理想中的人，你可能要找个工作，振作精神，学习烹饪，化妆，更平易近人，改变饮食习惯等等。

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If your goal is to become a head cook or chef, explore the many culinary programs to find the one for you.

如果你的目标是成为厨师长或主厨，你可以在众多的烹饪课程中为自己挑一门。

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In the past, to become a good gatherer or hunter, cook or caregiver, you would actually practice gathering, hunting, cooking and taking care of children all through middle childhood and early adolescence tuning up just the prefrontal wiring you'd need as an adult.

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