If you can find blessedness, my benison is that I can see you will be happy in faraway country. It's your choice, whether sad or happy, it's a untrammeled way belongs to you absolutely.

我只是站在很遥远的地方看着你成长，因为那是你的路，忧伤也好，快乐也罢，都是完完全全属于你一个人的自在自得的路。

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It is important to have a friend to talk to, whether it is about a sad or happy subject.

有一个朋友可以聊天儿是很重要的，不管你谈论的是难过的还是快乐的话题。

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You never have to guess as to whether they are happy, sad, angry or indifferent.

关于他们是否快乐、悲伤、愤怒或漠然，你从不需要猜测。

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Yet those who remember such minute details about the village where the boy would be born cannot recall whether they were ever happy when they were living there or whether, when they left, they were sad to be going.

NPR: One Boy's Heroism in the Face of AIDS