Lorne's example does not talk about other people, but instead focused on our own inner work. Sometimes we are afraid to do look at ourselves, to discipline ourselves, and we justify it as some kind of pseudo-compassion. Negative thoughts and emotions are a form of self-hatred, and choosing to work on them is self-compassion, but it can be painful and many of us shy away from it. This psychological laziness, he says, isn't real compassion, but can cause even more troubles.

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