"This brain system becomes activated probably to help you try to win this person back so you focus on them and crave them and try to get them back," she said.

“这种大脑系统的激活和可能会使得你尝试重新赢得对方的心，所以，你的注意力就会集中在他们的身上，渴望他们，并且努力让他们回心转意。”她说。

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Is there a person who's keeping this guy back in the wings, who's not letting this divine self-promoter set himself up in Jerusalem?

是不是一个人在阻止这个人得势，不让这个自称为神的人，把自己竖立在耶路撒冷？

youdao

However, if you don't have the money, you will have to borrow money from person B to pay back person A. This situation sends you deeper in debt.

然而当你没有足够的钱还款的时候，你就得从B某人那里借钱用来还欠的A某人的钱。 这种环环相扣的借钱还钱的状况会使你的财政状况变得更糟。

youdao

So, I said, okay, I didn't want to assume so we clicked senior and frankly it was then a dead end because apparently to get some senior discount you need to have some special pass or something like this that we didn't have and yet that certainly wasn't obvious here so now we together and this person in particular had to figure out how you go back and then restart this process.

我说，好的，我不希望揣测，所以我点击了老人票,然后问题就来了，因为似乎,需要特殊的号码之类的东西来购买老年票,但是我们没有,明显我们不应该走这步,现在我们一起必须找出,怎样返回，然后重新开始这个步骤。

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if your friend asked to borrow $100 from you, ... you would probably not say-- you might actually put interest on this person, so you could say, alright, I'll do it with 5% interest, pay me back in a year.

你的朋友向你借100美元，你可能不会说-,你可能会对他收取利息，因此你没准会说，好吧，我要收5%的利息，一年之后连本带利还我。

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