根据《宽恕的意念》(The Will to Forgive)这本书的作者罗伯•康宁汉(Robert Cunningham)的看法,否认别人能伤害自己是有自我陶醉倾向的症状。
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I ask for everyone who watched the game to forgive me, especially my two children who will one day watch the footage.
我请求所有看了那场球赛的人都原谅我,尤其是我的两个孩子,他们有一天也会看到那段录像的。
Still, it can be hard to admit it when you mess up. You worry that once you confess your mistake, the other person will be angry, refuse to forgive you, or lose trust in you.
你很清楚自己并非十全十美,可是承认自己犯了错也是个难事——你担心的是,一旦承认了错误,对方会生气,会拒绝原谅你,甚至对你失去信任。
At that point, the old French proverb "to understand all is to forgive all" will start to have a new resonance, though forgiveness may not always be the consequence.
到了那时候,那条古老的法国谚语,“理解一切,便是原谅一切”就获得了全新的涵义,尽管原谅未必总是最终结果。
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