Find a home: If you're about to put something down on your countertop, or table, or desk, or toss it on your couch or bed, think about this: is that where it belongs?

找到位子。如果你要把某个东西放在你的台面、桌子、办公桌上，或沙发与床上，先想一下：这是这个东西的专属位子吗？

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The popular saying 'Don't go to bed angry' can put pressure on a couple to resolve something that doesn't always have a quick solution.

那句很流行的说法“不要带着怨气去睡觉”，给了夫妻俩压力，得去解决那些无法快速解决的问题。

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And let me tell you something, that is what I think about every night when I put my girls to bed.

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Anyone who has ever put on a public face when all they wanted to do was stay in bed should understand something about doing the internal hard work of compensating for a disability without showing outward manifestations of it.

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And let me tell you something -- every night I think about this when I look my girls into the eye and I put them to bed.

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