Find out what those things are, think hard about who you want to be, and then show yourself honest to the people around you.

找出那些东西是什么，仔细考虑你想成为什么样的人，然后向周围的人展示你的诚实。

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Take steps to stop and enjoy the things and people around you.

停下脚步，享受你身边的事，感受你的家人。

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If you're constantly talking about how you used to do things at your last job or when the old boss was in charge, people will wonder why you stick around.

如果你总说你以前是怎么工作的，或者上一任老板在的时候是怎样的，别人会想不通，你为什么一边抱怨，一边还赖着不走。

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Self-discipline in terms of how you manage your life, your conduct, your body, those things and people around you becomes something you are conscious of.

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"You need to go with your own gut instincts and not let people around you push you into things, particularly if they're consultants, because when the campaign's over, they disappear, " Huckabee said.

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Insignificant things upset you and the people around you notice that something is wrong.

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