Even if the melody is not to our liking, we want to experience a response, an emotional reaction.
即使我们并不喜欢它的曲调,我们要经历一种反应,一种感情的呼应。
If clapped a movie at my school, so we would be very happy, I think we will therefore like a school, liking movie, our liking a school can shoot a movie.
如果在我的学校拍了一部电影,那么我们就会很高兴,我认为我们会因此喜欢学校,喜欢电影,我们喜欢学校能够拍电影。
Our liking to cry up other people's ising because of us doesn't think without a friend, our doing not forget a person be because of us to still contain hope.
我们喜欢夸奖别人是因为我们不想少了一个朋友,我们不忘一个人是因为我们还存有希望。
And this is called the Pratfall Effect, that our liking for the competent person grows when they make a mistake, when they do something embarrassing, when they have a failure experience. Okay?
心理学上,这叫“失态效应,我们对有能力之人的喜爱之情再次升华,当他们犯错,出洋相,经历很衰的事情时?
So, some of this, our liking of other people, is obvious and we talked about it in Dean Salovey's lecture, we talked about it when we talked about sexual attractiveness.
有些候我们对别人的喜欢,是很明显的,我们在Salovey院长的课上就讲过了,我们在讲性吸引时就讲到这点。
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