Hurt feelings between people can be very upsetting. How should you respond when someone comes to you complaining about being "put down" or insulted by someone else?

人与人之间感情受到伤害时会令人心绪不宁。当有人向你抱怨他受到别人的羞辱时，你应如何作出反应呢？

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Even if someone shouts abuse at you or strikes you, if you are insulted, it is always your choice to view what is happening as insulting or not.

当你被侮辱时，即使有人大声污蔑你或殴打你，这正在发生的事情是否为侮辱一直都是由你来决定的。

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How should you respond when someone comes to you complaining about being "put down" or insulted by someone else?

当别人向你抱怨他受到“羞辱”或被别人欺辱时，你该怎样回应他呢？

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If someone has threatened, insulted, or otherwise vexed you in some non-criminal way, and you want it put on record, write it down, take it to a notary public, and sign it in their presence.

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