Your habit of tunnel vision - seeing only what you want to become, but are not - keeps you from acknowledging your accomplishments and victories.

看待旅途的角度- - -只关注理想中的你，实际上还不是- - -会使你对已取得的成就和胜利视而不见。

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It is only necessary to mention accomplishments that show your best side; no need to state poor results and don't lie!

只需要指出自己特长方面的成就便可以了，而无需提及你的弱项，并请不要说谎。

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Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.

忽略藏在你头脑里负面的声音。把注意力集中在你的目标上，勿忘你所获得的成就。你过去的成功只是你未来所能取得成就的小小暗示。

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Downplay your accomplishments (but only initially).

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