So how not to end up like one bride I spoke to whose husband left after her eight months while she was still paying off the wedding?

和我曾经谈过的一位新娘，她的丈夫离开她八个月了，而她依然在为婚礼而偿还欠款。 如何结束像这位新娘一样的生活，建议有很多。

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So as not to damage your pride, I should not interfere in the matter of left behind children.

为了不伤害你们的自尊感，我是不应该管留守儿童的事情。

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"I was never able to go to school myself, and never learned how to read and write but I do want my children to get an education so that they are not left behind in society as I was," she says.

“我自己从来没能上过学，也从来没有学过怎样读书写字，但我确实希望我的孩子能受到教育，从而不至于像我那样被社会抛在后面，”她说。

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But, I was left thinking he might have played his role had he not been so brutally let go with 6 months pay for 19 years service just that afternoon.

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