It requires the ability to trust people outside your kinship circle, read intonations and moods, understand how the psychological pieces each person brings to the room can and cannot fit together.

它需要你具备如下能力：信任外人、读懂别人的语气和情绪、理解每一个人特有的心理因素能否合拍。

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Bored people tend to score low on measures of self-awareness. They find it difficult to accurately monitor their own moods and feelings and hence understand what they truly want.

容易烦躁的人，自我意识水平测试的得分一般会比较低，这些人一般难以精确的监视自己的心情和情感，因而也难以判断自己真正需要什么。

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So we may often be able to understand the moods of a culture in music and even in speech - without understanding a word.

所以我们经常在甚至都不需要理解其中涵义的情况下，就可以领会到音乐和言论中所渲染的情绪。

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