Try to depersonalize conflicts. Instead of a "me versus you" mentality, visualize an "us versus the problem" scenario.

试着客观地对待冲突。与其处于一个“我与你对抗”的思想状况，倒不如把冲突想象成“我们共同对抗问题”的情景。

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The software focuses on the greatest asymmetry in relationships and shows you how long it takes me to get back to you versus you to me, Charnock says.

“软件专注于人与人之间关系之间极大的不对称，以及展示我回访你所花的时间和你回访我的时间的对比。”Charnock说道。

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She looked at me as if she knew what I was going to ask and said, "You can do God versus the devil, and God wins."

她看着我仿佛她知道我将会提问，她说“你能做为上帝相对的也可以是恶魔，然后是上帝赢了。”

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What decisions did you want us to make together versus having me inform you about?

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Bringing more feminine qualities to OWS (and Wall Street) could prevent the me-versus-you mentality and maintain a more even, rational approach.

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Now, can you explain to me the significance of a pink pass versus a blue pass?

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