This is somewhat related to reasons 2, 3 and 4. You are afraid to give yourself (and maybe even loved ones) hope, because you are convinced that it won't work out.
这和理由2，3，4有关连。你害怕给自己 （或你所爱的人）希望，因为你深信这没有结果。
Have you let yourself really feel the sadness and maybe even fear that was brought on by your loved one's actions?
你有没有让自己真正去感受那些因为所爱的行为而带给你的悲伤甚至害怕？
Maybe you even blame God bitterly for taking this person while things were unresolved with your loved one.
可能你会责备上天的残酷，事情还没有明朗就带走了你最爱的人。
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